The moment

Have you ever feel hurt , pain when you are young . When you do not know the situation gonna hurt you. I believes everyone faces the same thing. I faces new situation or moment that no good from others. I stop and step back and think. This is good experience, rather than respond immature. I try to solve situation in win-win solution. The most important thing that i learn is be firm with myself, fight for myself and respect myself. It is true when you hurt other eventhough you enjoy it but hidden thing is you hurt yourselves also. When people try to act bad manner towards me, i thought to myself i must be relex and cool handle this. Not by raise my voice but raise my argument. If i raise my voice and act like i want to win this means i already lose to myself. Respect ourselves first, respect your heart. Then can respect others eventually.